Traning blooper help rrrr?

-im traning my horse to sidepass now and i got one side down but then she acts up and acts like we did no traning on that side. the other side is worse she will do it with other things to how do i fix this and somtmes i cry and i cant controll my self does this affect my traningYou've probably heard this before but horses can sense every feeling you have. i had the same problem except with the right lead and so the minute you go to try you know it will be a big battle and have a negative mindset. in your mind imagine her doing it perfectly and take big long breathes before starting go in with a positive mindset and just because that's not hard enough keep your mind that way. Walk your horse up to the corner of a fence with the fence to the front of you and the side of the corner to the side you don't want your horse do go to so if your having trouble going to the right put the fence to the right and in front of you. the minute your horse even leans over to the correct side release all pressure and do a circle or something. Then come back to the same spot and keep going like that until she can step and hopefully if you keep with it stay calm it will become easy. what ever side she has problems side passing to is probably her weaker side do lots of work on that side. Oh ps as odd as it sounds keep your reins extra loose you'll feel out of control but she will be calmer and make the corner the good place with lots of love in it. And don't forget if you act like you have all day it will take 10 minutes but if you act like you have 10 minutes it will take all day in other words take your time baby steps so she doesn't get frustrated.stop rushing it and stop crying. if you're going to be effective at training, you can't let your emotions control you and you can't pitch fits, and you can't be a baby about it.



you need to suck it up and be mature and keep your feelings out of it. because your feelings of frustration make you act like someone your horse doesn't want to listen to. I mean, you get in your own way, and you make things worse by pitching hissy fits.



go back and start over. and keep your head. stay calm and cool and ask your horse for one sidepass step. reward. only ask for 1 step on Monday.



then ask for 2 steps on Tuesday. take it easy and take the time it takes for your horse to understand.



and Wednesday you ask for 3 steps, etc...



when you take the time it takes, your horse will really learn.

when you rush it and demand and get your panties in a bunch, you get nothing and learn that you didn't really get the job done.
While your training never give up. ever. or the horse will think he/she has won the battle. Crying completely affects the training in a bad way, when you get upset like that make it act right then get off wait til you feel better and try again.
Trololol?
Get a trainer.